It had been more than 3 years since you had left us.
Over this 3 years, I had learnt to take the lead instead of just taking the back seat in life. Since we had started working and brought you over for trips, you still wanted to be the 一家之主 for decisions made even though both of us had not mentioned anything.
After your demise, I had to take the lead indirectly. Beginning it was a challenge as normally I will just sit back but I cannot be the passenger anymore.
I learnt to be more independent and took on the role of leader of the family and also taking care of mum. It was not easy for these transitions but I am happy I braved through.
Sis is getting married soon and soon the next phase of life with only mum will commence.
